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Heather Battaglia (Btagg23)
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Registered: 9-2009
Posted on Tuesday, September 08, 2009 - 8:07 am:   Edit PostDelete PostView Post/Check IPPrint Post   Move Post (Moderator/Admin Only)Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

When coaching High School Softball recently I had a player that felt she should be playing instead of the starter. After one of the games her Dad approached me yelling, that I had made his daughter cry every day after practice because she was not starting. I told her father that it was her first year and that she was still learning and that in practice she did get several opportunities to play but that I didn’t feel she was ready for game situation playing time. I also told her Dad that in the beginning of the season I addressed that if any player had an issue with their position or playing time, that they address their issue with me first, so that I could help them in any way to improve what they needed help with. Unfortunately, the girl did not address me and I hadn’t an idea that she was having such an issue over her playing time. If she have approached me prior do you think that this issue would have occurred. How could I have handled this better or what would you do put in this situation?
Anthony Smith (Ajs6771)
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Registered: 2-2010
Posted on Tuesday, April 05, 2011 - 9:47 am:   Edit PostDelete PostView Post/Check IPPrint Post   Move Post (Moderator/Admin Only)Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

Your best bet is to explain to the parent that she had not approached you and that you will work with her in practice to enhance her skills to try and break into the starting line up. I would also give drills to that parent for her to do outside of practice so the parent can see she is not where she needs to be to start and at the same time she can get better.

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