Summer
is past and fall has fallen upon us once again. With the first
couple of months under our collective belts, many of us have
settled back into our comfortable routines and have set ourselves
up to ride out the year confidently.
I remember when I started at my current vocation at Niagara
County Community College. I was home reading for a minimum
of an hour a night, sometimes two or three, in order to stay
a couple steps ahead of my new classes; not to mention the
long hours at the office when I wasn't teaching. I had to
learn the ropes of the inner-workings of the institution,
keep up with grading, and of course put out the numerous fires
that await all of us in the multi-faceted world of academia.
I was scrambling, stressing, and basically working my behind
off to try to be everything to everybody and still cover all
my content in a fashion that would engage my new students
enough to pass their assessments. As if that weren't enough
I came home every night to the task of parenting my two sons,
both under the age of four. I don't relish those days, and
if you had a similar experience starting out then you probably
know exactly what I'm talking about.
I'm amazed at how much I've grown in the five short years
I've been at NCCC. I still run around like a chicken with
it's head cut off, but now I actually feel like I'm gaining
ground instead of just keeping up. This article is about doing
more in your position than just keeping up, in an effort to
become the teacher, or perhaps the leader, you may have initially
imagined yourself to be.
Possibly you envisioned yourself helping kids swing better.
Perhaps you saw yourself inspiring kids to lose weight. Or
maybe you just thought you would be a better teacher than
the individual who could have inspired you and didn't. Whichever
it is, this article will hopefully draw your attention to
a subject we can all do a little bit more about, bullying.
I live in West Seneca, New York, a couple of towns over from
Williamsville where tragedy struck last month. Jamey
Rodemeyer, a freshman at Williamsville North High School,
committed suicide after 12 unrelenting months of cyber-bullying
targeting his sexuality. Sadly, this is not an isolated incident.
Headlines over the past year have held the names of tormented
youngsters like Justin
Aaberg, Phoebe
Prince, and Tyler
Clementi after they all gave way to the mislead harassment
of bullies.
In fact, data collected from 2008-09 by the National Center
for Educational Statistics states that 28% of students aged
12 – 18 reported that they were bullied in school. That's
more than a quarter of our kids! And no, not all of them are
pushed over the edge, but I consider any pointless unnecessary
death of one of our children to be one too many. Additional
numbers from this study point to the fact that bullying does
get 'better with age' with a high mark of 39 percent of all
sixth graders being bullied, down almost half to 20 percent
of high school seniors.
We in physical education have an intimate connection with
these bullying statistics. Historically, nay-sayers of our
discipline site physical education as a haven for embarrassing
memories of the past; getting picked last, picked on, and
picked out for poor performance. So what can we do in the
face of this troubling call to action? Look to our peers,
look to the leaders in our field.
The latest NASPE position paper titled "Physical
Education Is Critical to Educating the Whole Child"
details many important ways today's physical educator can
make a difference in the lives of our youth. Not the least
of those can be found in the second sub-section titled "High-Quality
Physical Education (top of page two)." In this
section, under the heading, "Appropriate Instructional
Practice" you will find specifically several items that
physical education teachers can focus on. They include, but
are not limited to:
• Teaching students' self-discipline.
• Teaching students to improved their own judgment.
• Teaching students how to manage and reduce stress.
• Teaching students how to strengthen peer relations.
• Teaching students about self-confidence and self-esteem.
Bullies feast on the apathy of peer observers. When our students
are bullied, they are many times near, or even surrounded
by, a group of children who do nothing to defend them, a sad
fact that has already cost too many lives. In a 1992 study
conducted by Boulton and Underwood, middle schoolers were
interviewed and asked the question, "What do you do when
you see a child of your age being bullied?" Their answers
broke down like this:
• 49 percent said they tried to help in some way.
• 29 percent said they did nothing, but thought that
they should try to help.
• 22 percent said they would not help because it was
none of their business.
These statistics point to the fact that just under half of
these youngsters have learned from someone that bullying is
not okay. Further, that same population states they have "tried"to
thwart these advances in some way. And that's really what
I would like to focus on, the idea of taking action in the
face of wrong doing.
Teaching students to have self-confidence and self-esteem
gives them enough of a positive self-image to believe that
they may be able to help in the face of injustice. If we keep
allowing students to believe that heroes only exist on television
we will be eliminating the pillars of tomorrows society. Find
teachable moments in class to bring to light when a student
positively displays self-confidence (when she's willing to
take the last shot, change teams to make them more even, or
let his work be shown to others so that they may learn, etc.).
Consistently praising these types of acts, and explaining
what makes them desirable, may make them more common place
in your classroom community. Perhaps with more self-confidence
bystanders will be apt to act when they see something they
identify as wrong transpiring.
Modeling for students how to effectively manage stress and
display self-discipline is actually easier than it sounds.
I know many of you out there have perfect classes who never
skirt the lines of control or decorum; however, I also know
that there are plenty of you for whom this is not true! So
the next time your students get unruly, try to relax, gain
perspective, and appreciate it for the teachable moment that
it is.
On more than one occasion I've said to my students, "Now
this is the time where I feel like I could lose my cool. Because
look at you all right now… you're being pretty rude
and disrespectful, wouldn't you agree?" And invariably
they do; and they stop, and they learn. And hopefully one
of the lessons they learn is that situations are not unmanageable
and neither are their feelings.
When it comes to self-control the gymnasium is riddled with
fine examples. Students who allow another player to score
rather than wildly fouling or even harming him display self-control
and should be praised. Students who restrain outbursts in
the face of errors or missed opportunities also give themselves
an opportunity to see what's next after that play.
The teaching point in that situation sometimes speaks for
itself when that same individual is still focused enough to
make the follow-up play right after, or remain clear-headed
enough to make the play the next opportunity they get. "Way
to go," I’ve often said, "way to keep your
head in the play." Bullies lack empathy, they lack self-esteem,
and they lack self-control. If we teach our students to appreciate
these things they will see them more clearly when they are
not present as well as when they are, and perhaps feel more
motivated to act.
I feel that teaching students how to improve their peer relationships
is really important early on in their educational careers.
Elementary teachers know how early the switch can happen where
one month everybody seems fine with everybody else, and then
the next thing you know an individual is left out in the cold!
Don’t turn a blind eye to this and pretend it's not
happening or that the classroom teacher will solve the problem.
We are gifted with opportunity after opportunity in our setting
that allows us access to real situations where these feelings
come to the forefront. It is at these moments that they should
be dealt with regardless of whether or not you're in the waning
seconds of a competition.
Recently two opposing teams were bitterly contesting in a
match of capture the flag, derogatory remarks of 'cheater'
and 'loser' were flying rampantly. The student instructor
did little to draw attention to the fact that the animosity
was transpiring at all. Instead, he tried to plow forward
with the game and get through the lesson, which I can hardly
fault him for since it was his first time at the helm.
At the end of his lesson I gathered the disgruntled mob and
explained that their behavior was unacceptable, and as aspiring
teachers they should expect more from each other and themselves.
Essentially, I drew their attention to their actions and afterward
I followed up by giving them alternative actions. Our Adventure
Education class is built on the Full Value Norms of Be
Here, Be Honest, Be Safe, Set Goals, and Let Go and Move On,*
and this episode fractured many of these. I instructed the
students to remember these tenets and to shake hands with
their opponents in the spirit of sportsmanship, to give their
opponents the benefit of the doubt, and to let go of moments
of indiscretion and chalk them up to externalities rather
than internalities.
Getting by in physical education class does not
meet our expectations as teachers for our students, nor does
it meet our expectations for one another. "Happy, Busy,
and Good" was dispelled years ago as an acceptable goal
structure in our classrooms, and as such cannot be the guiding
determinant of whether or not an episode was successful. Did
the students learn? Did they become better movers? Did the
students deepen their understanding of key concepts? Did they
grow as people?
If these are the guiding questions that we ask ourselves
each day, then the importance of teachable moments that allow
these lessons to transpire will be the endpoints we strive
for. Bullying cannot stand when everybody is watching with
clear eyes and steel spines. It cannot in person
because bystanders will step in to the aid of the bullied
party. It cannot online because peers will support
the bullied person so that it is the bully rather than the
bullied that is ostracized. And when self-confidence and self-esteem
abound, even the threat of bullying will become a stress that
our strong students can manage in their everyday lives.
My advice in this article is to make these items of paramount
importance in your classroom. Never let a glaring incident
ride when it so obviously doesn't belong within this environment
with which we are entrusted, that is unlike any other.
*adopted from Adventure Curriculum for Physical Education,
Middle School; Panicucci. Project Adventure, Inc.